With December upon us, it is a perfect time for reflection. I look back, and I feel excited!! I designed and launched "The Forgiveness System". I've been helping people forgive themselves and others. I have helped many people release their emotional blockages so that they can move forward with confidence. It has been a year of MY choosing that was filled with happiness and joy.
When you look back at 2016, what emotions get stirred up for you? Did you accomplish the goals you set for yourself? Were you able to forgive yourself and others? Did you learn from your "mistakes"? Did you have a year of your choosing? Do you feel excited about starting 2017?
As the New Year approaches, remember that 2017 is a clean slate. You have the power in you to make it a wonderful year. If the idea of starting fresh overwhelms you, I am here to help. Don't let another year go by that isn't all it can be. Let 2017 be the year of YOUR choosing.
My first workshop for "The Forgiveness System" was a GREAT success!!
I would like to make "The Forgiveness System" workshop easier to attend. I'm now offering home parties for groups of 3-10 people. Set aside three hours with your family/friends. Make it an afternoon or evening of healing. Call me today to schedule your home party. 339-227-0073
If you are holding onto the pain, anger, bitterness, or resentment from being hurt from someone in your past, consider attending my workshop. The Forgiveness System was designed to help you take control over your own happiness. It helps you to release the hold someone has over you. You are allowing yourself to heal when you forgive. You are giving yourself permission to let go of the pain and move forward.
Sunday June 12, 2016
20 Industrial Avenue, Chelmsford
In this workshop, I will take you step by step through The Forgiveness System. I will talk to you about the importance of forgiveness. I will help you forgive others as well as help you forgive yourself. I will also give each person one on one attention.
You can purchase tickets for this workshop on Eventbrite.com. Space is limited for this event.
Ellen LaBella, owner of Rediscover Your Light, is looking for couples who aren't sure whether they should stay together or break up/ get divorced.
This trial study is to help structure a cohesive program. Couples need to be able to commit to a 2 hour initial session and 3 one hour sessions.
Together we will look at your relationship. We'll give value to the strengths, and we will address the weak points. If it seems like staying together is the path you should take, we'll work on ways to fix what is "broken". If splitting up makes more sense, we'll deal with the the difficulties of your separation to produce mutually beneficial results while maintaining dignity and respect.
Couples ideal for this study...
Couples interested in participating in this trial should contact Ellen at 339-227-0073. You will be asked a few questions to make sure you are a good fit for the trial. The specifics of the program (times and location) will be discussed during the initial phone call.
There is a reason why people say trust is the most important factor in a relationship. It is the foundation of relationships. Do you have trust in the relationships you have? If you find you do not have trust, you need to discover why. Are you holding onto a past experience from a different relationship? Did this person do something to doubt your trust? Are you not being trust worthy? Be honest with yourself. If you can repair the trust, then do so. If you can't, you should move on.
I often get asked, "Ellen, what exactly do you do?" My reply is, "I listen with an open heart, and I respond without judgement." Too often people just need someone to listen to them. (maybe offer suggestions too) This is usually where a friend comes in to assist, but what happens when you don't want to bring your friends into your troubles? I created Rediscover Your Light for this purpose. I am not a therapist so many times people find I'm more approachable. My goal is to help you see the good in your life and focus on that. I show people how to look at their issues from a different perspective. I assist people in releasing the anger they are holding. In essence, I help people find their happiness.
Change happens!! There's no need to fear it. Instead try to make the change what you want it to be. Take action to create the result you want from the change.
My client "Rose" was so overwhelmed with anxiety. After her third panic attack she decided to see if I could help her. Her husband was promoted with his company, and they had to move to a different state. She had lived in Massachusetts for over 40 years. New England was all she knew. In two month's time, they would be living in South Carolina. In order for her to take charge of this new change in her life, I had her list the fears she was feeling towards the move. We tackled each fear one by one until she felt in control of the situation. Her biggest fear was not having any friends in SC. I had her search on Meetup for some groups she could join. Not only did she find a few that interested her, but she quickly became email friends with the organizer of one of the groups. After tackling her fears, we moved to the exciting things she could/should focus on regarding her move. **NEVER HAVING TO SHOVEL AGAIN** was the most exciting part!!
With her fears conquered and her focus on the positive, "Rose" lost her anxiety and her panic attacks never came back. She learned that even though the move was a big change, she wouldn't let the fear of it control her life. She took charge. She is ready to leave the home she's always known for a new and exciting life in South Carolina.